What Is Your Female Musician IQ?

  1. 1) I realize that not everybody will like me even if I’ve made efforts to befriend them.



  2. 2) In the company of other musicians I feel comfortable listing my musical accomplishments.



  3. 3) If I’m leading a band I have no problems giving instructions to the bandmembers.



  4. 4) When I make a trivial mistake during a performance, I don’t bring attention to it during or after a gig.



  5. 5) Music is a business, so I spend time studying to be a good business person.



  6. 6) I take time to network with other musicians both men and women in my local area.



  7. 7) I understand the power of body language and use it to exude confidence.



  8. 8) During conflicts with male musicians, I keep my emotions at bay but assertively speak my opinion.



  9. 9) I make it a priority to get respect from the musicians I work with.



  10. 10) I work to build a spirit of camaraderie with other female musicians rather than competition.



  11. 11) I bring business cards with me wherever I go.



  12. 12) I know that just because I am the woman doesn’t mean I should clean up after my band members at rehearsals or gigs.



  13. 13) At rehearsals I am sure to dress appropriately and save my “sexier” clothes for my performances.



  14. 14) If a colleague speaks to me condescendingly I am sure to let him know he crossed the line.



  15. 15) Musical goal setting is an important habit, therefore I practice it often.



  16. 16) I have a good knowledge of equipment and musical terms.



  17. 17) I am assertive and professional when dealing with employers who hire me for performances.



  18. 18) I don’t let other musicians take credit for my ideas.



  19. 19) Having male mentors is a priority in my life.



  20. 20) I recognize what my best physical features are and accent them with my clothing.



  21. 21) I’m not afraid to develop relationships that I know will further my career.



  22. 22) I know that men and women both have equal potential to become great musicians.



  23. 23) I have no problem discussing money with my employers and negotiating when necessary.



  24. 24) When in a conflict with men I use powerful body language to hold my ground rather than cowering down and feeling powerless.



  25. 25) I have no problems voicing my opinion during a discussion when men are around.



  26. 26) It doesn’t bother me if men are intimidated by my self-confidence.



  27. 27) I don’t allow men to treat me like a little girl.



  28. 28) I make sure not to giggle and act girlish when I am around male musicians.



  29. 29) Intimate relationships can create problems within bands, therefore I avoid them.



  30. 30) I point out when a stereotype is being applied to me.



  31. 31) I rarely discuss my personal life or female issues (like PMS) amongst my male musician friends.



  32. 32) When performing, I make sure to take as much physical space as I need on stage.



  33. 33) I have a professional up-to-date website – not just a myspace page.



  34. 34) During a gig, I help the guys bring in some of the gear.



  35. 35) I spend time educating myself about the different instruments and their roles in a band.



  36. 36) I frequently buy books, take seminars and read online articles about the music business.



  37. 37) I am not intimidated by other female musicians.



  38. 38) Having leadership skills is important, therefore I strive to become an effective leader amongst my peers.



  39. 39) In a musical environment I don’t bring attention to my weaknesses.



  40. 40) I understand that teasing is a form of camaraderie between men, so I don’t get offended when it’s directed at me.



  41. 41) I don’t get involved in cattiness with other women.



  42. 42) During a conflict with men I maintain a stone-faced expression and keep direct eye contact.



  43. 43) When other musicians give me constructive criticism, I don’t take it personally, but view it as an opportunity to grow.



  44. 44) I never cry when I am around my male musician friends.



  45. 45) I feel that being respected is more important than being liked.



  46. 46) Healthy competition can be fun and allow me to reach new heights in my musicality.



  47. 47) When someone gives me a compliment about my musical talents, I thank them graciously rather than deflect their comments.



  48. 48) When a fellow male musician acts inappropriately towards me I let him know verbally or I remove myself from the situation.



  49. 49) For performances I am always punctual, organized and well rehearsed.



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