Diva is a FOUR Letter Word
November 25th, 2010
Today’s Quote:
“Women are the real architects of society”. Harriet Beecher Stowe
Have you ever been called a diva? Do you know a female musician who is considered a diva? When we think diva, we usually imagine a narcissistic woman who believes the world revolves around her – expecting everybody to act as her own personal genie, instantly satisfying her every desire.
Flipping the Diva Coin
In my opinion, you can actually be a good diva. You can be what I call a “fabulous diva”.
I’ll be the first to admit that I have met many women musicians who fall into the diva category. I have also met other women who were labeled divas and really weren’t divas at all, but were simply self-enlightened. These women, who tend to be a little older, don’t seem to be threatened by labels. They know how to wield their power and rise above criticism. They understand that in order to be a powerful person you will at times be misunderstood by individuals who cling to outdated beliefs. These so called divas have developed an inner strength that either demands respect or brings out insecurities in others.
In my opinion, you can actually be a good diva. You can be what I call a “fabulous diva”. Below is an acronym that I feel best describes this amazing woman. Read the rest of this entry »
3 Things Lady Gaga Wouldn’t Wear on Stage.
September 1st, 2010
Today’s Quote:
“It is not women’s fault if we are so tender. It is in the nature of the lives we live. And further, it would be a terrible catastrophe if men had to live men’s lives and women’s also. Which is precisely what has happened today – to women.” – Selma James
Lady Gaga (aka Stefani Joanne Angelina Germanotta) is the queen when it comes to fashion on stage. If you are a female singer or female musician, chances are you have checked out this celeb’s latest fashions. You may or may not be able to picture yourself wearing this type of wardrobe but there are some things you should never wear. Here is list of what I think this artist would never be caught in while performing.
What Lady Gaga Wouldn’t Wear on Stage:
Lady Gaga wouldn’t split over hairs. There’s just something about those tresses that really make the icing on the cake when it comes to your look on stage.
Artists spend thousands of dollars to have great hair. Stars are known to have a budget the size of Nasa’s, set aside just for the right “do”. You don’t necessarily need Edward Scissorhands as a hairstylist, but it doesn’t hurt to pay for a great stylist who can sculpt your coif into a masterpiece. The next time you need a cut, take a pic of your new look and bring it to a more affordable hairstylist. Read the rest of this entry »
So you still wanna get a record deal…really?
August 19th, 2010
Quote of the Day:
“There would be no new school without the old school.”" Vivian Scott, Epic Records
What does Madonna, Green Day, Limp Bizkit, MC Hammer, and Courtney Love have in common?
They are one of the many artists who have dumped their record companies and began selling their songs independently. Why, you ask? That’s a good question since many unsigned artists are under the impression that once you get signed the dough just keeps rolling in.
Do the math
Did you know that an artist gets a measly $1 dollar bill (and often less) for every CD that is sold. Imagine spending a huge part of your childhood, teenage years and adulthood developing your musical skills only to be rewarded $1 a CD once you became famous. How long would it take you to make all those millions you were dreaming about. With shows like American Idol and America’s Got Talent, the media has been extremely successful in creating the illusion that signed artists are living the big life. Yes it is true, that some artists are very wealthy but the reality is that even if you get signed, it will be a long time before you see any real money. Read the rest of this entry »
How to be a Friendly Barracuda
June 7th, 2010
If you’ve ever wondered whether to be assertive or nice when gigging with men, you’re not alone.
As a female musician you may at times feel like you need to be an acrobat walking a tight rope between super-tough chick and super-nice barbie.
Today I’m going to talk about how to be assertive while still maintaining some form of friendliness.
Men respect women who are neither a pushover nor overly aggressive. Read the rest of this entry »
Talent Is All You Need… Or Is It?
May 27th, 2010
Are you one of those female musicians who believe that as long as you have great talent the world is your oyster?
Since American Idol has permeated the airwaves, there seems to be this attitude that if you are somewhat musically gifted a multitude of doors will swing wide open for you. (I actually think the best American Idol shows are the ones at the beginning of the season. You know the ones where Simon rolls his eyes and calls his poor victims the worst singer on the planet. The poor soul goes away pretty depressed. But hey – that’s TV for you!)
Obviously talent is essential for a career in music, but that is simply the proverbial “tip of the iceberg”. If you happen to be one of the lucky female musicians who reaches star status, hats off to you (you’re probably not reading this blog anyways – stats say it’s like winning the lottery twice). But for the rest of us mere mortals, things are a bit different.
Bragging Rights for Female Musicians and The Art of Self-Promotion
May 13th, 2010
Have you ever felt like you needed to learn how to promote yourself but didn’t want to come across like you were bragging?
Take a lesson from the best braggers on the planet– Men!
Most male musicians have an instinct for informing the world of “look at all the things I’ve done”.
When you are introduced to a guy it usually doesn’t take but a few minutes before they give you the 411 on who they are, what they’ve accomplished and all the gear they own.
